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Fear and Hope

Submitted by Abu Midad on June 13, 2009 – 3:22 pm4 Comments

Have you ever awoken in the night wanting to get a glass of water but unable to because you feared that something was lurking in the dark? Or have you ever skipped your Jumah prayer because you feared your teacher would judge you?

Have you ever seen someone complain about losing their job or failing a class?

These questions are fundamental in understanding Fear and Hope. Though more importantly is fear part of the Muslim character? Do we really have something to hope for?

At the time of Musa (AS) people would fear the Pharaoh, and thus became enslaved to him out of this fear. Allah (SWT) guided Musa (AS) and the children of Israel to fear only HIM (SWT) and through this they attained freedom from this tyrannical Egyptian ruler.

O Children of Israel! call to mind the (special) favour which I bestowed upon you, and fulfill your covenant with Me as I fulfill My Covenant with you, and fear none but Me.

Quran (2:40) [Y. Ali]

In biology and mammalogy we learn that fear ensures the safety and cautionary actions taken by an organism. Thus, it is intelligent to fear Allah(SWT) and his punishment to help ensure and promote your safety in this life and the hereafter.

“It is only those who have knowledge among His slaves that fear Allah.”

Quran (35:28)

fear_hope1If one is solely to dwindle in fear then one can easily be overcome with sadness and hopelessness. Alhamdulillah, Allah (SWT) has relieved us from this depressive state by providing hope to us. Hope is given through the guidance of Allah (SWT), which will emancipate us from the prison of this world to the promise of paradise; from the torture of hellfire to the pleasure of gardens beneath which rivers flow.

Allah (SWT) affirms that those who follow his guidance will not fear or grieve in the Quranic verse addressing Adam (AS), Howa (AS) and their future progeny:

[For although] We did say, “Down with you all from this [state],” there shall, none the less, most certainly come unto you guidance from Me: and those who follow My guidance need have no fear, and neither shall they grieve;

Quran (2:38) [Asad]

Some people may be thinking “I may be Muslim, but I’ve done a lot of bad things in my life. Is there hope for me?”

Allah (SWT) mercy precedes his wrath and thus Hope is even given to the sinful and the transgressors:

“O My slaves, who have transgressed against themselves! Despair not of the Mercy of Allaah, Verily Allaah forgives all sins (except shirk). Truly He is Oft-Forgiving, the Most Merciful”

Quran (39: 53)

Some may ask how can the Fear of Allah (SWT) save us in this life? Sometimes fear prevents us from the displeasure of Allah (SWT) and perhaps HE (SWT) will reward us not only in the hereafter, but in this Dunya as well. In the hadith narrated Ibn Umar Allah’s Apostle said:

Allah’s Apostle said, “Once three persons (from the previous nations) were traveling, and suddenly it started raining and they took shelter in a cave. The entrance of the cave got closed while they were inside. They said to each other, ‘O you! Nothing can save you except the truth, so each of you should ask Allah’s Help by referring to such a deed as he thinks he did sincerely (i.e. just for gaining Allah’s Pleasure).’

So one of them said, ‘O Allah! You know that I had a laborer who worked for me for one Faraqfear_hope3 (i.e. three Sas) of rice, but he departed, leaving it (i.e. his wages). I sowed that Faraq of rice and with its yield I bought cows (for him). Later on when he came to me asking for his wages, I said (to him), ‘Go to those cows and drive them away.’ He said to me, ‘But you have to pay me only a Faraq of rice,’ I said to him, ‘Go to those cows and take them, for they are the product of that Faraq (of rice).’ So he drove them. O Allah! If you consider that I did that for fear of You, then please remove the rock.’ The rock shifted a bit from the mouth of the cave.

The second one said, ‘O Allah, You know that I had old parents whom I used to provide with the milk of my sheep every night. One night I was delayed and when I came, they had slept, while my wife and children were crying with hunger. I used not to let them (i.e. my family) drink unless my parents had drunk first. So I disliked to wake them up and also disliked that they should sleep without drinking it, I kept on waiting (for them to wake) till it dawned. O Allah! If You consider that I did that for fear of you, then please remove the rock.’ So the rock shifted and they could see the sky through it.

The third one said, ‘O Allah! You know that I had a cousin (i.e. my paternal uncle’s daughter) who was most beloved to me and I sought to seduce her, but she refused, unless I paid her one-hundred Dinars (i.e. gold pieces). So I collected the amount and brought it to her, and she allowed me to sleep with her. But when I sat between her legs, she said, ‘Be afraid of Allah, and do not deflower me but legally. ‘I got up and left the hundred Dinars (for her). O Allah! If You consider that I did that for fear of you than please remove the rock. So Allah saved them and they came out (of the cave).”

Sahih Bukhari – Volume 4, Book 56, Number 6711

Thus out of there fear for Allah (SWT) in the past, they were saved in the present. Fear of Allah (SWT) is a core characteristic of a Muslim, and it will help Muslims remain steadfast in Islam.

O ye who believe! Fear Allah as He should be feared, and die not except in a state of Islam.

Quran (3:102) [Y. Ali]

Now that we have understood that Fear and Hope are necessary for the success of any Muslim we should also understand that balance between both is equally important. There is an old Arabic poem which means: Hope and Fear are like the two wings of a dove They need to be in balance in order to fly. Allah(SWT) mentions hope and fear together in the ayah:

“Call upon Him with Fear and Hope.”

Quran (7:56)

fear_hope4The Importance of Fear and Hope is emphasized even by the scholars. In the book Enjoy Your Life by Dr. Muhammad ‘Abd Al-Rahaman Al-‘Arifi, he speaks about a friend who is a fellow scholar who lost 11 members of his Family. The man was always in the remembrance of Allah (SWT) and reminded himself and others that from Allah (SWT) we came and to him we will return. Dr. Muhammad said had he not been content with Allah (SWT) and the hope of Jannah (paradise) for his loved ones, he surely would have died from his grief.

Importance of both fear and hope is also given in numerous psychology studies, like the one done by AD Hathaway2 in which they found that fear tactics are useless unless they are coupled with an rational alternative. Thus, according to this study the fear of Hell would render useless unless it was coupled with the hope of Paradise (rational alternative).

Another study by Barry Schwartz titled Pitfalls on the Road to a Positive Psychology of Hope he indicates that the study of learned hopelessness3 could be reversed so that people can have learned optimism only by having something that was permanent in eliciting a positive desire. In Islam this permanent positive desire would be paradise and thus learned optimism is quite plausible for the Muslim.

fear_hope2In conclusion, fear and hope are essential for all humans and are part of the core characteristics of a Muslim. Having both will lead to success in this life and the next.

Thus, the next time you fear something lurking in the dark or being judged by a professor, always remember that true fear is only for Allah (SWT) and this belief will set us free from the mental prisons of fear we have created within ourselves.

Lastly next time you see someone complaining about their situation, tell them “Cheer up buddy! Put your hope in Allah (SWT) and no matter how much your problems are holding you back, the promise of paradise will always keep you moving forward!”

And Allah (SWT) knows best.

Lo! those who say: “Our Sustainer is Allah”, and, then steadfastly pursue the way of righteousness. The angels descend upon them (from time to time); Saying: “Fear you not nor grieve! But receive the Glad Tidings of the Paradise that which you were promised. We are your protecting friends in the life of the world and in the Hereafter. There you will have (all) that your souls desire, and therein you will have (all) for which you pray! – A hospitable gift from the One, Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful!”

Quran (41:30-32)

  1. This Hadith indicates that one can only ask Allah for help directly or through his performed good deeds. But to ask Allah through dead or absent prophets, saints, spirits, holy men, angels etc. is absolutely forbidden in Islam and it is a kind of disbelief. []
  2. International Journal of Drug Policy (Volume 12) – 2001 []
  3. According to researcher Marlena Plavšic’, “learned helplessness” refers to the passive acceptance of unpleasant situations, nullifying the natural reactions, which normally cause attempts to escape or to control the situation. “Learned hopelessness” is a state of deep depression, brought on by prolonged immersion in a reality of learned helplessness. []

4 Comments »

  • Mikel Abdu says:

    Props. Nice article bro.

  • Heba Mohammad says:

    Good Job Mash’allah. I like the multiple perspectives of quran, hadith, and scholars and psychology on one topic. Looking forward to the next one.

  • Arwa Al-Hajj says:

    mashallah very informative and thorough i loved it

  • Omar says:

    Beautiful, Inspiring, and concise!

    This is the what will reach the masses and touch their hearts and enlighten them minds…. In Sha Allah!

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